paulaangela

.. thats what he is to me. He holds me down, drives me crazy at times; but nevertheless i still love him more then anything. I could only hope that all the women in my life would be as lucky as i am to have a man like him; God has truly blessed me.

Soo finally a new year, new faces, new personalities, new slapps, new trends, new jobs, new EVERYTHING; but same me. 

To be real I dont understand why people wait a whole year to change their ways, to improve themselves, to stop bad habits & begin good ones. Everyone is ovbiously infatuated by the words ” NEW YEARS RESOLUTION”. 

How about try new day resolution? Better yourself daily, take your shit step by step, one day at a time & learn from it. Eliminate whatevers holding you down TODAY & weed out the negative.

Why wait 365 days to improve your swagg? & honestly be real to yourself for a quick minute and ask yourself what your last year resolution was … exactly. I bet you all my casssh half of you dont even remember what it was, yet alone accomplished it. 

The human brain is impossible to understand, but i do know is that im changing daily .. for the better. & if the worst comes, then it comes. Whatever doesnt kill you only makes you stronger. I’ll take the good with the bad; cause its the bad times that makes the good times feel sooo good. 

If you kiss her, you are not a gentleman.
If you don’t, you are not a man.
If you praise her, she thinks you are lying.
If you don’t, you are good for nothing.
If you agree to all her likes, you are a wimp.
If you don’t, you are not understanding.
If you visit her often, she thinks it is boring.
If you don’t, she accuses you of double-crossing.
If you are well dressed, she says you are a playboy.
If you don’t, you are a dull boy.
If you are jealous, she says it’s bad.
If you don’t, she thinks you do not love her.
If you attempt a romance, she says you didn’t respect her.
If you don’t, she thinks you do not like her.
If you are a minute late, she complains it’s hard to wait.
If she is late, she says that’s a girl’s way.
If you visit another man, you’re not putting in “quality time”.
If she is visited by another man, “oh it’s natural we are girls”.
If you kiss her once in a while, she professes you are cold.
If you kiss her often, she yells that you are taking advantage.
If you fail to help her in crossing the street, you lack ethics.
If you do, she thinks it’s just one of men’s tactics for seduction.
If you stare at another woman, she accuses you of flirting.
If she is stared by other men, she says that they are just admiring.
If you talk, she wants you to listen.
If you listen, she wants you to talk.

— Yeah i get it, we’re complicated. But if you read between the lines of our complications then maybe you can grasp how we feel internally.  

feel us, hear us … UNDERSTAND us.